Wedding Ring
July 4, 2006 by dryxanne
What is it with a man n a wedding ring?
i’ve seen some men, married, but they dont wear their wedding rings…this post is not supposed to discuss pro n contra or whatever…i know i dont do complete survey, so its just my own curiosity…but really, i’ve seen more men dont wear their wedding rings than women who do…
some gave reasons like, they are just not used to, that what matters is the heart not the ring…but hey, i wonder, is there a smell of ego that a man without wedding ring, when he goes out n socialize, women will still consider him available n attractive enough (hopefully…) to approach? Or, worse, that IS their purpose of NOT wearing wedding rings?
Its not like men who wear their rings dont cheat either, nothing guarantees that…but, IMHO, wearing a wedding ring, may show that you as a man (or woman if any of u included in this group), are committed to someone in a marriage. Its not just a thing wrapped around ur finger, its a symbol of commitment, a reminder that u "belong" to someone, a representation of the love n respect you have n share with someone ur supposed to spend the rest of ur life with.
Isnt that a wedding ring supposed to mean?
So, even if you have a lot of reasons (some of them are somewhat logical too…) not to wear ur wedding rings, at least ur reasons are not based on taking chances of cheating…at least, im hoping none of my married friends would ever do such thing. Hey im not being judgemental or saying im a saint of something here, i know cheating happens everyday, everywhere…And that is not the major topic here. Thats a whole different post to go later on…Just hoping all my married friends stay committed to their wedding vows years ago, or days ago to those newly weds.
Just remember why you put those rings on each THAT day, n what they mean to your life…Wearing them on, even if u dont like it, or not used to it, other than really logical safety or medical reason, may show that ur serious to ur commitment, n ur showing the world, that yes, im attached, im committed to someone.
Things n life aint easy, n 1 day i may do the opposite of what im thinking n writing now…i may end up one of those Not-wearing-wedding-ring women, or worse, i dont wear it n i cheat! Or with the intention to cheat! Oh dear God…
so, anyone reading this post (hopefully there are people reading this), what u think bout this? Is it ok (its just a thing anyway, its the heart that matters), or u agree with me (if ur true to ur heart, feeling n commitment, then show it!) ?
well, when i did wed, i am one guy who won’t wear the ring.
i don’t wear accessories other than a simple wrist watch.
never get used to necklaces, earrings, rings, wristband, etc.
so, its just personal preferences AND NOT for cheating purposes.
(but a little adventure out there is okay, righty-o?)
but then, a wedding ring is not an accesories…not at all…there’s where i find many guys have the same view that they think wedding ring as one of the accesories as any other rings and they wont wear it coz they dont wear accesories…
anyway, glad u would share ur opinion
Buat gw ring is just ring, about wedding ring, gw prefer bahwa hatinya yang terikat bukan jari manisnya:), sorry Lind, for me its ok when my man forgot or doesnt use the wedding ring, but I would appreciate when he wear it.
yeah..i know, terikat hatinya actually is more important. Tp gw pikir, klo emg hatinya uda terikat , cmon, adding one more isnt gonna kill him anyway
thanks 4 sharing ur thought 